New year resolution! – Feeling confident!

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New year resolution! – Feeling confident!


Even though I’m a little late I wanted to wish you guys a merry Christmas and a very happy new year!! I can’t believe we are already in 2015! That’s crazy! Another year has passed and each time I feel a little sad that time goes by so quickly. However I also feel very excited to start a fresh new year which I’m sure it’s going to be even better than the last one. I promise that I’ll try my best to update my blog more often this year and to create interesting content to keep you guys entertained.

Sometimes it’s really hard for me to press the Publish button. There are so many things that I would like to say, but sometimes my words don’t seem enough to fully express my thoughts. I’m not a very confident person, actually I’m quite shy.

Starting a blog was a huge challenge for me, but sometimes we all have to face our fears to succeed. And that’s exactly what I’m trying to do. I’m still a little concerned whenever I share my new posts on Twitter or Instagram ( I still don’t share it on my Facebook page cause I don’t feel comfortable enough to let people know that I have a blog ), because I’m always afraid of what people could think. I know that it can sound a little silly, and that I should not care about what other people think, but I live in a small town and sometimes other people’s comments can be pretty mean.
And to make things even more complicated ( because why not ) I decided to write my posts in English. There are two reasons behind my choice, the first one is that I’ve graduated in Languages and I thought that writing in English could help me practicing with the language. The second one is because I wanted to share my ideas and thoughts also with people that come from all over the world and that can only understand me through English.

So guys if you have a brand new blog or content that you feel is worth to share, try to share it without being afraid. Feel free to link me in the comments your blog or a blog post that you would like to share. I won’t judge, I would love to go and check it out! My blog is pretty recent ( I started it only three months ago) and I’m always looking for new blogs like mine to get some inspiration!

People have the right to have an opinion, we have the right to share our thoughts with the rest of the world without feeling ashamed of it.
I’m sorry if this post was a little annoying for you, but I figured I’d share with you my new year resolution : share my posts without being worried or ashamed. I hope you’ll do that too. I’ll try!



  1. Its gonna be a great one, trust me! Love you Xo

  2. messyeffe says:

    Thank you honey! Love you too!

  3. L’importante è osare sempre 😉 Continua così!

  4. Chiara_92 says:

    Hiiii Francesca!!! :)… This post Is one of my fovourites (published till now :P)… The words you used reminded exactly how I am, but I honestly tell you that you’re bringing on your blog perfectly and we should try not to care, ora at least flying up, about other’s opinion… Even if it’s absolutely haaard >_<!!!
    Big kissss Chiara :)…

  5. messyeffe says:

    Thank you chiara_92! Thanks for your kind words 🙂

  6. grace1902 says:

    Hi! I recently started a new blog for the same reason. I want to be able to break out of my shell and be a more confident person. Hope you year is off to a great start!
    – sam

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